Let's see, I'm doing pretty good, the numbness/shock of my situation is still keeping me together.  Plus, of course, I've accepted the inevitablilty of what the hel happened.

I think I can summerize it pretty well too.  I like my sex romantic and my relationships friendly.  He likes his sex friendly & his relationships romantic.  It's probably been working against us for a long long time.

On to more interesting stuff.

I really need to do some prep work for nanowrimo.  Since I'm not going to do an outline, I should do some character sketches.  now i just have to force myself to do it.  Only a few weeks left, after all.

I also need to start hitting the gym big time.  It's october, I haven't met my weightloss goals for the year, guh.  I wanted to lose another 15 lbs. by Xmas.  the only way I'm going to do that is to start seriously working out now, because november I'll be focused on writing, which will spill into december, no doubt.  guh.