okay, why are there so many assholes in the world? I was surfing the Urban Dictionary, and came across 'breeders'. I can't help being straight, trust me, I've tried, and while I haven't dated every type of girl, I just can't get into it; it's kind of depressing, since I've met so many more women who wanted to have a relationship with me than men.  And yes, I have kids (two).  One for each of us, as it were.  And while there's a sentimental part of me that wants to have more, I am so not going to do it.  Kids are a lot of work, a lot of pain, and definately can be annoying.  It's not something fore everyone, and I refuse to encourage couples to have any; it's a choice that's not mine to make.

I can see getting mad at people who have too many kids and don't take care of them (as in the #1 definition of breeder, as opposed to breeder_s_).  I get mad at those people, and wish we had to pass mental health exams or something, maybe an IQ test, before anyone was allowed to have babies.   And I know how angry and upsetting being insulted/derided can be (i'm a pagan, socialist feminist and have been attacked verbally as well as physically for not hiding my existance).   But I still can't see how calling an entire group a name is really a mature way of responding to insults.  it's letting one goup of assholes turn your group into assholes as well.

and it also completely ignores the homosexual couples who want and either adopt or bear children of their own.  Does that mean certain lesbians and gays are 'breeders' too?  It's stupid.  Fear and anger are always a nasty mix, and it makes me angry and hurt to know that in spite of all the support I have for my gay and bi friends, I get the automatic 'married with kids?  must be a vanilla prude who hates everything!'  Okay, it doesn't hapeen every day, but when I come across this kind of crap, I just want to scream.

why pick on all straight people; ?  it doesn't make sense, but then, like I said right at the beginning of this rant, there are assholes in this world; I just don't like being reminded of them!

I'm feeling much more mellow now. Probably because I got all the vitriol out earlier, lol. I have to remember to keep balanced, but sometimes you just need to vent a little, right? Still, whine goes with cheese, and cheese can make you gassy... ( Read more... )